May 4, 2006

IT'S A SICK, SICK WORLD




Oh my God. This is a perfect example of the reality of The Jerry Springer Show. It makes me realize that there are more of "them" than there are of "us".


Please for the love of God, trailer trash people, stop procreating. People like you are turning our future adults and what is left of our civilized society into a breeding ground for criminals, sociopaths, alcoholics, violent assaulters, drug addicts...you name it. If you can't afford to take care of a child, then DON'T HAVE ONE.




This story makes me want to vomit.






Woman who gave birth to stepson's child sentenced to 20 years in prison




TYLER, Texas (AP) — A 39-year-old woman who had sexual relationship with her teenage stepson and later gave birth to their child has been sentenced to 20 years in prison. Carla Kay Dinger pleaded guilty to sexual assault of a
child before Tuesday's sentencing. She was also ordered to pay a $10,000 fine. She admitted carrying on a sexual relationship for two years with her then-stepson, starting in 1998 when he was 14. It ended when Dinger found out she was pregnant with her stepson's child, prosecutor Jason Parrish said.


The stepson told his mother about the relationship in 2001, and she told Dinger's husband. He confronted Dinger and she admitted to the affair, Dinger has said. Dinger and the teen's father divorced in 2002. The child she had with the teen is now 6 years old.
Dinger had primary custody until 2004, when she and her ex-husband began sharing custody.


Dinger has tried to change her life, going to counseling and attending church, said her attorney, Clifton Holmes. (Oh, I've heard this one before, I've found the Lord. I'm a changed woman...')


Dinger's former stepson, now 22, filed a lawsuit in 2004 against her seeking monetary damages. In the lawsuit, he said Dinger had frequently provided him with methampetamines and alcohol. The two had made plans for Dinger to divorce his father so they could marry, he said. But after Dinger found out she was pregnant, she sent him to live with his mother and told him not to tell anyone, he said.



5 comments:

Anonymous said...

What you don't know about this story is that the father was on meth, too. And around the same time had tried to kill his wife by putting a trash bag over her head while she was asleep. He also trapped her in a bathroom for 4 hours cutting her hands with scissors while she defended herself as he was trying to cut all of her hair off. This is one of the everyday abuses she suffered. And that she tried to leave him, and he would trap her other son in the house so she couldn't take him with her, so she would have to come back. The articles also don't mention the fact that she thought the baby she had with her step-son belonged to her husband, too, until the paternity test was done . And just before this relationship began, she had just lost the one child born to her alive out of 4 since her first at 18 (and these miscarriages were not from drugs, they were from a genetic incompatibility b/t the wife and husband, which is documented. There was only a 75% chance that any child born to them would be without birth defects; she actually thought that she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant again). You also don't know that after the divorce, the father of the step-son would call her at the business they both still owned(but she had to manage) to make her have sex with him (even after the affair with the step-son) using his ability to push her indictment to force her. You really don't know anything about this case at all, except the DA's side. The father never cared about his son, and he doesn't care about her son that was conceived with her step-son. All he wants is to take the company she built, even after she gave him the house, the new lot for the new house, and a 1/2 million dollars to buy him out of the business, out of guilt for what she had done. He pushed the indictment, right after she bought him out, and one month before the time was up for the DA to indict her. He also paid off witnesses, which was not allowed into the trial, even though there were witnesses to the pay-off. These people are in it for the money. The father and son were just fine sitting at home getting seven grand a month to smoke pot all day b/c she felt guilty enough to let them. But they knew that eventually she would buy him out, b/c he didn't DO ANYTHING. There is so much more to this case than any person could imagine. And through it all, even now, she has admitted that she was wrong, kept her faith in God, and said that if prison was where He wanted Her, then she would do His will. And, she is. You have probably never come across the type of people that the step-son and father belong to. And I pray to God that you never do. I know that what she did was wrong (as does she), but please let it be known, that if you had been through what this lady's been through, you might not be so quick to throw the book at her without knowing the full story. She has done so much for other people, before and after the affair with her step-son, that it has been to her detriment at times. But she just kept on giving and depended on God to take care of them and her. And He still is, despite what people may think. She paid my mother's car payment for six months, and didn't even know her, because she lost her job and I wasn't able to pay it myself for my mother. I broke down at church one day, and finally admitted that I was upset about my mother's situation, and she said "What can I do to help?". The one time I tried to send a check of my own, she ripped it up. That is really the type of person she is, despite appearances and very serious mistakes. So, before you judge just by what you get from the Associated Press, please know that this is a real human being, with family and friends that love her, and that are suffering with her. What she did was not right. But the person God has made her is a good person. And after all she has done, good and bad, she is my still my best friend.

Anonymous said...

What you don't know about this story is that the father was on meth, too. And around the same time had tried to kill his wife by putting a trash bag over her head while she was asleep. He also trapped her in a bathroom for 4 hours cutting her hands with scissors while she defended herself as he was trying to cut all of her hair off. This is one of the everyday abuses she suffered. And that she tried to leave him, and he would trap her other son in the house so she couldn't take him with her, so she would have to come back. The articles also don't mention the fact that she thought the baby she had with her step-son belonged to her husband, too, until the paternity test was done . And just before this relationship began, she had just lost the one child born to her alive out of 4 since her first at 18 (and these miscarriages were not from drugs, they were from a genetic incompatibility b/t the wife and husband, which is documented. There was only a 75% chance that any child born to them would be without birth defects; she actually thought that she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant again). You also don't know that after the divorce, the father of the step-son would call her at the business they both still owned(but she had to manage) to make her have sex with him (even after the affair with the step-son) using his ability to push her indictment to force her. You really don't know anything about this case at all, except the DA's side. The father never cared about his son, and he doesn't care about her son that was conceived with her step-son. All he wants is to take the company she built, even after she gave him the house, the new lot for the new house, and a 1/2 million dollars to buy him out of the business, out of guilt for what she had done. He pushed the indictment, right after she bought him out, and one month before the time was up for the DA to indict her. He also paid off witnesses, which was not allowed into the trial, even though there were witnesses to the pay-off. These people are in it for the money. The father and son were just fine sitting at home getting seven grand a month to smoke pot all day b/c she felt guilty enough to let them. But they knew that eventually she would buy him out, b/c he didn't DO ANYTHING. There is so much more to this case than any person could imagine. And through it all, even now, she has admitted that she was wrong, kept her faith in God, and said that if prison was where He wanted Her, then she would do His will. And, she is. You have probably never come across the type of people that the step-son and father belong to. And I pray to God that you never do. I know that what she did was wrong (as does she), but please let it be known, that if you had been through what this lady's been through, you might not be so quick to throw the book at her without knowing the full story. She has done so much for other people, before and after the affair with her step-son, that it has been to her detriment at times. But she just kept on giving and depended on God to take care of them and her. And He still is, despite what people may think. She paid my mother's car payment for six months, and didn't even know her, because she lost her job and I wasn't able to pay it myself for my mother. I broke down at church one day, and finally admitted that I was upset about my mother's situation, and she said "What can I do to help?". The one time I tried to send a check of my own, she ripped it up. That is really the type of person she is, despite appearances and very serious mistakes. So, before you judge just by what you get from the Associated Press, please know that this is a real human being, with family and friends that love her, and that are suffering with her. What she did was not right. But the person God has made her is a good person. And after all she has done, good and bad, she is my still my best friend.

Anonymous said...

What you don't know about this story is that the father was on meth, too. And around the same time had tried to kill his wife by putting a trash bag over her head while she was asleep. He also trapped her in a bathroom for 4 hours cutting her hands with scissors while she defended herself as he was trying to cut all of her hair off. This is one of the everyday abuses she suffered. And that she tried to leave him, and he would trap her other son in the house so she couldn't take him with her, so she would have to come back. The articles also don't mention the fact that she thought the baby she had with her step-son belonged to her husband, too, until the paternity test was done . And just before this relationship began, she had just lost the one child born to her alive out of 4 since her first at 18 (and these miscarriages were not from drugs, they were from a genetic incompatibility b/t the wife and husband, which is documented. There was only a 75% chance that any child born to them would be without birth defects; she actually thought that she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant again). You also don't know that after the divorce, the father of the step-son would call her at the business they both still owned(but she had to manage) to make her have sex with him (even after the affair with the step-son) using his ability to push her indictment to force her. You really don't know anything about this case at all, except the DA's side. The father never cared about his son, and he doesn't care about her son that was conceived with her step-son. All he wants is to take the company she built, even after she gave him the house, the new lot for the new house, and a 1/2 million dollars to buy him out of the business, out of guilt for what she had done. He pushed the indictment, right after she bought him out, and one month before the time was up for the DA to indict her. He also paid off witnesses, which was not allowed into the trial, even though there were witnesses to the pay-off. These people are in it for the money. The father and son were just fine sitting at home getting seven grand a month to smoke pot all day b/c she felt guilty enough to let them. But they knew that eventually she would buy him out, b/c he didn't DO ANYTHING. There is so much more to this case than any person could imagine. And through it all, even now, she has admitted that she was wrong, kept her faith in God, and said that if prison was where He wanted Her, then she would do His will. And, she is. You have probably never come across the type of people that the step-son and father belong to. And I pray to God that you never do. I know that what she did was wrong (as does she), but please let it be known, that if you had been through what this lady's been through, you might not be so quick to throw the book at her without knowing the full story. She has done so much for other people, before and after the affair with her step-son, that it has been to her detriment at times. But she just kept on giving and depended on God to take care of them and her. And He still is, despite what people may think. She paid my mother's car payment for six months, and didn't even know her, because she lost her job and I wasn't able to pay it myself for my mother. I broke down at church one day, and finally admitted that I was upset about my mother's situation, and she said "What can I do to help?". The one time I tried to send a check of my own, she ripped it up. That is really the type of person she is, despite appearances and very serious mistakes. So, before you judge just by what you get from the Associated Press, please know that this is a real human being, with family and friends that love her, and that are suffering with her. What she did was not right. But the person God has made her is a good person. And after all she has done, good and bad, she is my still my best friend.

Anonymous said...

What you don't know about this story is that the father was on meth, too. And around the same time had tried to kill his wife by putting a trash bag over her head while she was asleep. He also trapped her in a bathroom for 4 hours cutting her hands with scissors while she defended herself as he was trying to cut all of her hair off. This is one of the everyday abuses she suffered. And that she tried to leave him, and he would trap her other son in the house so she couldn't take him with her, so she would have to come back. The articles also don't mention the fact that she thought the baby she had with her step-son belonged to her husband, too, until the paternity test was done . And just before this relationship began, she had just lost the one child born to her alive out of 4 since her first at 18 (and these miscarriages were not from drugs, they were from a genetic incompatibility b/t the wife and husband, which is documented. There was only a 75% chance that any child born to them would be without birth defects; she actually thought that she probably wouldn't be able to get pregnant again). You also don't know that after the divorce, the father of the step-son would call her at the business they both still owned(but she had to manage) to make her have sex with him (even after the affair with the step-son) using his ability to push her indictment to force her. You really don't know anything about this case at all, except the DA's side. The father never cared about his son, and he doesn't care about her son that was conceived with her step-son. All he wants is to take the company she built, even after she gave him the house, the new lot for the new house, and a 1/2 million dollars to buy him out of the business, out of guilt for what she had done. He pushed the indictment, right after she bought him out, and one month before the time was up for the DA to indict her. He also paid off witnesses, which was not allowed into the trial, even though there were witnesses to the pay-off. These people are in it for the money. The father and son were just fine sitting at home getting seven grand a month to smoke pot all day b/c she felt guilty enough to let them. But they knew that eventually she would buy him out, b/c he didn't DO ANYTHING. There is so much more to this case than any person could imagine. And through it all, even now, she has admitted that she was wrong, kept her faith in God, and said that if prison was where He wanted Her, then she would do His will. And, she is. You have probably never come across the type of people that the step-son and father belong to. And I pray to God that you never do. I know that what she did was wrong (as does she), but please let it be known, that if you had been through what this lady's been through, you might not be so quick to throw the book at her without knowing the full story. She has done so much for other people, before and after the affair with her step-son, that it has been to her detriment at times. But she just kept on giving and depended on God to take care of them and her. And He still is, despite what people may think. She paid my mother's car payment for six months, and didn't even know her, because she lost her job and I wasn't able to pay it myself for my mother. I broke down at church one day, and finally admitted that I was upset about my mother's situation, and she said "What can I do to help?". The one time I tried to send a check of my own, she ripped it up. That is really the type of person she is, despite appearances and very serious mistakes. So, before you judge just by what you get from the Associated Press, please know that this is a real human being, with family and friends that love her, and that are suffering with her. What she did was not right. But the person God has made her is a good person. And after all she has done, good and bad, she is my still my best friend.

Anonymous said...

When I first heard this story, I judged this woman very harshly. So comfortable was I in my righteousness until God dealt with me. He dealt with my pride and my pharisee like attitude. I understand the concern but God says there is none righteous no not one Romans 3:21 and He also says that if we come to Him he forgives us of ALL unrighteousness. 1 John 1: 9 He said that we will be held accountable for all our sins, whether by omission or commission, if we do not go to Him as Savior and admit our guilt, every one of us, no matter who good and righteous we think we are. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." John 8:7 He says to love those who are unlovable. Care for the LEAST of these. Jesus says, (I believe, when speaking to the pharisees), "verily I say unto you that the prostitutes and tax collectors are entering the Kingdom of heaven ahead of you" Matthew 21:31
This is because the tax collector and prostitute know they have need of the Lord but those of us on this blog do not know we need the Lord. We are too good and too righteous. If I fall into thinking I am too good and too righteous, then I am going to Hell. "I'm a pretty good person" says one and "I don't need Jesus as a Savior. I will get into Heaven through my good works". says another. Not so, says God. "Today is the day of salvation." 2 Corinthians 6:2
Lets not judge her but let's take stock of our own need for the Lord whether we sinned by disobeying our parents, or by being hateful (to hate is to kill, the bible says) 1 John 3:15 - "Well I don't believe the bible" says someone. But I guarantee we will all believe it one day because "every knee shall bow and every tongue hall confess" Phil 2:10, so please if you are not saved, please ask the Lord to save you and repent of your sins, yes you do have them, no matter who minute you may think they are, and please pray for this woman instead of judging her. Thank you Justin, because you have reminded me of my pridefulness toward her and I have asked God to forgive me for that stinking attitude. He says I will be judged by the same measure. Is there anyone on this board whose lives can stand the light of God's judgment? I doubt it. Everyone has Some sort of sin. Everyone on the earth, the bible says, in one form or another.